Cara Wardina Safiyyah Didik Anak Solat 5 Waktu
Cara Wardina Safiyyah Didik Anak Solat 5 Waktu
Dear Mama, Ummi, Mum, Ibu, Bonda…
I have to share this with you… because i feel so happy and i feel that all my penat lelah paid off…I started to make my Amna to solat 5 times a day when she was 7, on her 7th birthday…we had a talk…(check note lama) tapi preparation since 6 la…
tapi dari kecik memang selalu ikut2 la kami solat….she hasnt missed her solat since. Walaupun lambat, tetap solat. I made sure of that – because the key is SOLAT ni kalau tak tanam dari kecik memang LIAT nanti….But it is very important to keep this in mind:-
1) kalau kita bagi dia tinggal WALAUPUN sekali nanti we are sending the wrong signal – kena make sure – every waktu without fail, walaupun penat, ataupun lambat
2) l Selalu kalau boleh solat together..mula2 memang kena solat together….kalau tak ada rumah make sure an adult in the house pastikan anak kita solat. (hari tu Amna pergi her reading class, i asked her teacher to take her to the surau) -lepas solat time tu lah peluk cium, senyum – i always kiss her at the head and say “Barakallahufiha” Ya Allah make my Amna a good Muslim Ya Allah….make her never miss her solat Ya Allah…..kuat2 bagi dia dengar….
ps:- kalau kena amik cuti ambillah – bukan waktu exam je amik cuti – buatlah STEP ini, yakni melangkah ke alam 7 thaun dan tidak meninggalkan solat A BIG Thing! “mama amik cuti hari ni sebab nak pastikan yang adik solat 5 waktu sehari!”
3) Selalu cerita how IMPORATANT it is to solat..how Allah is watching us… how we are good Muslims when we solat, how Allah loves us, Solat tu, untuk kita, bukan untuk Allah…..TAPI selalu jugak cerita yang akan ada orang TAK solat…acknowledge the fact that sometimes we feel lazy to solat….itu semua kerja SETAN! Fight them off….! I tell Amna that even some grown ups tak solat! I tell Amna that….we have to be strong.. we have to tell ourselves we will NEVER miss our solat…..
4) Awal2 subuh ni memang tak bangunkan, tapi as soon as dia bangun pagi, ill ask her to solat straight away.(yes memang leceh..but we have to, and we have to do it with LOVE diselang seli dgn strictness)
5) kalau dia tinggal – DENGAN sengaja, i take the rotan and hit her on her tapak tangan slowly, just as a reminder. After that i hug her and tell her i love her, and i just want her to remember – and guess what?? memang dia ingat!!! (3 kali baru, i think not bad, sampai satu hari dia terlambat solat, sebab keluar dan memang tak ingat, dia yang suruh rotan) But i tell her kalau TERLUPA atau TERTIDUR its ok…but kena solat terus bila bangun.
Macam ni ceritanya, i told Amna, kalau Ummi ambik Amna dari sekolah lambat, Amna solat dulu Asar kat sekolah….tadi memang datang lambat…i was loking for her..and guess what????
She was actually praying her Asar prayers…sorang je kat dalam surau tu….i wanted to pengsan and cry…she did all by herself…. i pun told her how happy and how proud i was of her…i tanya dia kenapa? dia kata “Amna ingat apa Ummi cakap”…..cair nya hatiku ini.
Apa lagi, Ummi ni peluk cium dia….and called nenek at Australia…now im sharing with all of you!!! Because i want us to raise generation of good Muslims that are disciplined, smart, intelligent -that remembers Allah because the world so BADLY needs good QUALITY Muslims like this!!!
And the foundation is – to start them off right – solat at SEVEN! Yes just as how Rasulullah asked us!I love you all!!! Good night….. But the key to all this IS Mak Ayah KENA dan WAJIB solat dulu…anak ketam tak boleh diajar berjalan terus…fahamkan?
Wardina Safiyyah
Wardina Safiyyah
menyentuh hati.. in sha allah cuba dipraktikkan pada anak. tahniah k.dina
BalasPadamAlhamdulillah.. moga anak2 kak dina jadi anak yang solehah... (h)
BalasPadamalhamdulillah.. terima kasih share ni kak wardina..
BalasPadamthanks for sharing this....
BalasPadameven belum ada anak pun, terharu sgt2 ni.. inspirasi untuk diamalkan one fine day.. insyaallah
Thanks Allah....about the sharing....wardina....u untung....didik anak perempuan....me also like u....by 6 dah train my sons to pray....mmg diorg solat....tp i lbh penat dr u...
BalasPadamgirl lbh mudah dgr kata ummi....boys...byk alasan but still buat....kalau tertinggal ...kena qada'...
father diorg pun rotan kalau tinggal sebab main at scholl....
i bersyukur juga....anak i dah blh jd imam n blh masbuk....tp your girl mmg bagus....solat walaupun sorang je....Tahniah Wardina....
Thank you for sharing this :)
BalasPadamnot to tell that everyone should follow wardina but this is exactly what all parents should have done..thanks
BalasPadamThanks Wardina for sharing."Barakallahufiha".
BalasPadamThanks for the sharing .... Tips for all the parents out there.
BalasPadambagusnya wardina..
BalasPadamharap sy juga dapat praktikkan pd 3 org anak perempuan saya..
:) :)
MashaAllah Uncle respek cara Wadina mendidik anak. Bertuah lah ibu yang mengandung kan Wadina.
BalasPadamSebak membaca..usaha utk memulakan.. istiqamah utk disiplin.. cabaran buat ibu bapa..jika mampu lakukan.. itulah yg terbaik. Smoga kita bjaya mendidik diri sendiri.. dan anak2..
BalasPadamTerbaik dan terima kasih kerana sudi berkongsi ilmu allah.semoga kalian di syurga akhirnya.
BalasPadammohon copy :)
BalasPadamTerbaik.
BalasPadamTahniah wardina...ak bangga...smoga ak pun dpt melakukan seperti apa Dina buat pada anak2...barakallahufiha...
BalasPadamAs Salam.. trima kasih atas perkongsian ini. Mohon kebenaran untuk saya perkara naik ini bersama di fb... Kalau diizinkan.
BalasPadamSomething interesting to share with all mother outside there...setiap tindkn perlukan keikhlasan hati sorang ibu...
BalasPadamTerima kasih share akan dijadikan guide line sedikit sebanyakkkkk
BalasPadamAmna u are a good girl baby
Owh..sangat menyentuh hati..huhu,
BalasPadamsaya mohon copy di blog saya..vitamindansuplemen.blogspot.com
Subhanallah.. Sejuk hati ini dengar cerita Wardina.. Semoga Allah ber kekuatan pd kami utk mendidik anak seperti Wardina jugak :)
BalasPadamSubhanallah...tqvm k.wardina.. inshaaAllah..crita ni sy jadikan guideline utk didik ank2.. smgt rasa nk bg anak rs seronok solat cm mama n abahnya..
BalasPadamKalau anak kita 5 tahun dh boleh ajar solat mcm solat jemaah dgn kita ..tp setiap bacaan kta bca kuatlah even sujud..lama2 dia boleh ikut dn buat sendiri
BalasPadam